How to become a Mediator — in four steps…

Here is the four-step process toward becoming a Massachusetts qualified mediator with MV Mediation. Schedules and more information on the next pages.

  1. Participate in either the Conflict Coaching or Conflict Essentials foundational course

  2. Participate in Introduction to Mediation – Basics

  3. Participate in Introduction to Mediation—Advanced

  4. Participate in Introduction to Mediation—Practicum & Apprenticeship


Frequently asked questions:                                                                              

Do I have to do all four segments?

No. Many people take only a foundational course or the Basics section and decide that is enough for them. Others do one segment one year and come back to finish another year. If you want to be qualified to provide mediation services in Massachusetts, you need to participate in all four, unless you have received training in another state or are a member of the MA Bar, in which case your course work will be dependent upon your previous course work and experience.

Who teaches and what kind of courses are they?

All these courses are taught collaboratively by experienced mediators on the MV Mediation roster. The courses are interactive and participatory—this is not a ‘sit and git’ type of experience. Although we do record the course, real time participation is required – with some assignments between sessions. Lots of laughs and some profound moments guaranteed.

I may not be able to pay for the courses up front, is that ok?

Sure. Let us know what your circumstances are, and we will work something out. We want all interested people and particularly those from underserved populations to participate. Possible scholarships for those from immigrant, indigenous, youth and people of color communities.

Who takes these courses?

About one third of those who take courses end up adding themselves to the MV Mediation mediation or coaching roster. Others use the skills and techniques in their work, family and community lives. As one participant said, “We should have learned this stuff in second grade!”

How do I register?

Go to our website and sign up—there’s a general sign-up form and you can fill in which course you are registering for. Or call/email us to chat—information below.


Foundational Courses

Mediators-in-training • please take one or both foundational courses

Conflict Coaching

Learn the process of one-on-one coaching. Conflict Coaches work with motivated individuals toward new everyday conflict management approaches. This is a participatory and dynamic course – all participants will engage in their own conflict coaching to learn the process from the client perspective.

Materials Provided. Additional Suggested texts:

Cinnie Noble  – Conflict Mastery—Questions to Guide You

Marcia Reynolds – Coach the Person—Not the Problem

Conflict Coaching

15 hours – 6 sessions

15 hours
6 sessions
Mondays
10 AM - 12:30 PM
9/13, 9/20, 9/27,
10/4, 10/11, 10/17
$150-$300
Session One
Monday, September 13
Coaching, Conflict, Ethics, Overview
Session Two
Monday, September, 20
Intake, Introduction, Entry, Discourse
Session Three
Monday, September 27, 2021
Goals, Questions, Notes, Listening
Session Four
Monday, October 4
Needs, Identity, Values, Language
Session Five
Monday, October 11
Analysis, Reflection, Preparation, Mutuality
Session Six
Monday, October 18
Heartcheck, Options, Planning, Revelation

Conflict ESSENTIALS

Analyze conflicts, review life’s messages about conflict and gain strategies for use in daily life. Participants will use real life conflicts and conflict resolution methodology to support becoming everyday conflict resolvers.

Materials Provided. Additional Suggested texts:

William Ury – Getting to Yes and/or Getting to Yes with Yourself

Stone, Patton, Heen – Difficult Conversations

Conflict Essentials

15 hours – 10 sessions

15 hours
10 sessions
Tuesdays
4 PM - 5:30 PM
9/21, 9/28, 10/5, 10/19,
10/26, 11/2, 11/16,
11/23, 11/30, 12/7
$150-$300
Session One
Tuesday, September 21
  • What is conflict?
  • How have I conceptualized conflict in my life?
  • Session Two
    Tuesday, September 28
  • Conflict matrix
  • What are the major patterns of conflict response?
  • Session Three
    Tuesday, October 5
  • Analyzing conflict
  • How can I think about conflict analytically?
  • Session Four
    Tuesday, October 19
  • Positions & interests
  • How do I search conflicts for the real issues?
  • Session Five
    Tuesday, October 26
  • Active Listening
  • What should I do to be a better listener?
  • Session Six
    Tuesday, November 2
  • Emotions & conflict
  • How are emotions & feelings related to conflict?
  • Session Seven
    Tuesday, November 16
  • Looping & Reframing
  • What to do to show I’m trying to understand?
  • Session Eight
    Tuesday, November 23
  • Managing Toxicity
  • What does research say about toxic polarization?
  • Session Nine
    Tuesday, November 30
  • Conflict De-Escalation
  • What can I learn to cool down conflicts?
  • Session Ten
    Tuesday, December 7
  • Creative solutions
  • How can collaboration drive creative solutions?

  • Mediation BasicS

    First of three required sections to be Massachusetts qualified as court or community mediator

    Introduction to Mediation Basics

    Learn the principles and process of facilitative mediation in an interactive and hands-on process. Participants engage in role plays, video review, reading and lively discussions as they learn the basic tenets of community mediation.

    Materials Provided. Additional Suggested texts:

    Beer, Packard & Broadfield – The Mediator’s Handbook

    David Hoffman et al – Mediation: A Practice Guide

    Introduction to Mediation Basics 15 hours – 6 sessions
    15 hours
    6 sessions
    Mondays
    10 AM - 12:30 PM
    10/18, 10/25, 11/1,
    11/8, 11/15, 11/22
    $150-$300
    Session One
    Monday, October 25
    What is and is not mediation?
    Session Two
    Monday, November, 1
    How do mediators set the stage?
    Session Three
    Monday, November 8
    How do mediators listen to the story?
    Session Four
    Monday, November 15
    How do mediators ask questions?
    Session Five
    Monday, November 22
    How does the mediator help negotiation?
    Session Six
    Monday, November 29
    How does the mediator guide the agreement?

    Mediation ADVANCED

    Second of three required sections toward qualification as Massachusetts court or community mediator

    Introduction to Mediation Advanced

    Focus on mediation complexity and dilemmas including court, diversity, impasse, and ethics. Participants complete the course by mediating a full role play mediation case and receive collaborative feedback and support toward achieving professional level mediation practice.

    Materials Provided. Additional Suggested texts:

    Beer, Packard & Broadfield – The Mediator’s Handbook

    David Hoffman et al  – Mediation: A Practice Guide

    Introduction to Mediation Advanced

    15 hours – 6 sessions

    15 hours
    6 sessions
    Mondays
    10 AM - 12:30 PM
    11/29, 12/6, 12/13,
    12/20, 1/3, 1/10
    $150-$300
    Session One
    Monday, December 6
    How do mediators mitigate impasse?
    Session Two
    Monday, December 13
    How do mediators view biases & diversity?
    Session Three
    Monday, December 20
    How do mediators use neuroscience?
    Session Four
    Monday, January 3
    How do mediators approach emotions?
    Session Five
    Monday, January 10
    How do mediators balance power imbalances?
    Session Six
    Monday, January 17
    How do mediators handle ethical dilemmas?